Originally Posted By Labuda Ok, so August 1st is the date that Eric and I decided we were getting a divorce. About 5 weeks later is when my world fell apart when a mutual friend of ours friend finally got me alone and informed me that for the last 18 months of my marriage, Eric cheated on me every time I left town. Had a mini nervous breakdown, but got into my old shrink and am now on a more even keel. So, anyhow, sadly Eric and I are no longer the friends that we had told each other we'd be after the divorce, BUT I do get "visitation rights" for my kitties - Tuesdays after work. Oh, and when I told Mike (the guy I was dating) about Eric's cheating, it ended up with me and Mike deciding to no longer date. If you have me on IM or have my email and want the juicy details of THAT, just give me a holler. So, for the past few weeks I've just been learning to be happily single. Moved into the house that my brother owns here in town, have a cool housemate named Tim that I get along pretty well with, and just working and playing poker. So, a couple of weeks back, a nice-looking guy started to show up intermittently where I play poker. This week on Wednesday, we actually spoke for the first time - and chatted from about 7 pm until 2:30 am. One REALLY big bonus for him after this chat is that I counted how much he drank all night - 3 beers. Other than that, it was Dr. Pepper or water. MUCH respect from me that he's not the raging alcoholic that every other dude I play poker with is. So, anyhow, yesterday we went out for lunch. Had a very nice time, just chatting for about 2 hours, then off he went to Walmart to get the photos he took at a party friday night developed for me (he went as a 1970s baskbetball player, and I requested Friday when we were texting that he get a picture for me, as I think it'll be great to see him in an afro) and I went off to work to do some month-end reporting. Anyhow, last night we were texting during the UT game (OMG, that was a great game to watch but what a HORRENDOUS end), and he'll be coming over to my place Wednesday night so I can make him dinner. His name's Larry, he's about 4 years older than me, works on the maintenance crew at the convention center, and is divorced. His divorce happened when he found out his ex was cheating on him, so he, like me, has a COMPLETE lack of respect for anyone who cheats. BIG bonus there! He also seems to be a good amount more conservative than me (did 4 years in the Army when he was younger and regrets having gotten out, as that lifestyle suited him), but I don't see that as a bad thing at all. I think he'll be a good influence on me if things work out and we're dating for a while - heck, I'm already skipping poker this Wednesday night so I can stay home and cook dinner for him. I can't remember the last time I made a home-cooked meal! lol Oh, and he likes to golf. Anyhow, just wanted to share a little update on my life with my family here at LP and let you know that I'm going to try to stay around for a bit, at least here in Community, for a while. Especially since it's nearly time for the LPWB. Where, oh, where is Heinz with the signups? hehe Ah, in closing, please think happy thoughts for me that this thing with Larry lasts for a while. p.s. He's 6'3" so WOO WOO! And for those of you who know me, yes I DO know who Mutt & Jeff are! hehe
Originally Posted By mj9401 That is great news!! I hope it works out well for you. Sorry about the news on Eric though...that must have been devastating. Enjoy the new man!!
Originally Posted By Liberty Belle Oooooh! I'm so happy to hear this, Ann! He sounds great - my fingers are crossed that it all works out for you. Horrible to hear about Eric's cheating, though But it sounds like you're putting that all behind you and moving on, so good for you!
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter I'm glad to hear that things are looking up on the relationship front for you, Ann. Gotta wonder why this friend even told you about Eric's cheating. . . it doesn't seem like that could have been helpful in any way. I guess maybe it confirms that you made the right choice in divorcing him? Anyway, I wish you much happiness!
Originally Posted By Labuda Pixie - the friend told me because she rightly assumed that I would immediately run out and get tested for HIV and every other STD under the sun. I already knew I was clean as of 1 September, but now I'm making it a monthly ritual for a total of six months to get tested. That and, yes, it DEFINITELY confirms I made the right choice in deciding to take that ring off. Anyhow, thanks for the well wishes, all. It's been a weird three months, but I'm feeling pretty good about llife at the moment. OH! And I've been a non-smoker for 12 1/2 days now. Not a SINGLE craving. yay Chantix!
Originally Posted By Labuda Ah, also, just in case anyone thinks I'm being blinded by anything - I'm adoring Larry so far - good man, good values, good job... but I'm also waiting to start finding out the negatives. like if he doens't like the chicken I make for dinner on Wednesday... oh, and he's got a big nose, but I'm overlooking that for the personality and height and gorgeous blue eyes.
Originally Posted By -em Yeah! Hope everything continues to go well- and congrats on 12 days! only 340457+ more
Originally Posted By mele Wow, Ann. I've been worried about you for awhile but figured you were just getting settled into your new life. I don't spend much time on AIM but shoot me an email if you get the chance! Big hugs!
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter Well, good grief, how stupid could I be?! I completely forgot about the STD issue. . . obviously I have been off the dating scene for a looooooooooong time--lol! Thank God you escaped that possible result of his cheating.
Originally Posted By jnemo Great news Labuda but here is the "Big Question", will he like Disney World??? If he passes that test, he is a keeper. I am glad things are working out for you.
Originally Posted By DVC_dad Ann this is good news. I am so happy for you finally meeting what seems like a "good" man. Congratz, and here's to sending happy thoughts and prayers your way.
Originally Posted By Labuda jnemo - here's hoping! I haven't found out yet how Disneyish he is, but good idea. Maybe I'll work that into the conversation over dinner Wednesday. Oh, and -em, THANK YOU!!!!! Got your mail the other day! FABOO! <3 it, <3 it, <3 it!!!
Originally Posted By FiveBearRugs Labuda is so happy about her new friend that she's about to (BLANK). Labuda, drop me an email.
Originally Posted By disney pete ann im really happy for you sorry to hear about eric i know what thats like after finding out about my cheating ex,i must of missed about the mike guy but best of luck with Larry hun you deserve it.
Originally Posted By Kennesaw Tom Ann, I"m so glad to hear about the new friend. Looks like things are finally going in your corner for a change. Good for you!
Originally Posted By JazzCat Congrats! He sounds like a great guy and I hope it all works out with a happy ending!
Originally Posted By sun-n-fun Post 10 beat me to it, does he love WDW??? I've wondered where you have been but since I don't actually know you, figured it really wasn't my business I love hearing about your WDW trips and hope to hear of more to come. You are a great voice here and I have missed you. Hope it all works out for you!
