Originally Posted By KCCHIEF I feel like I have been in a whirlwind the last couple of months.....I am divorced...I am not with anyone....but, I am "ok".....so much has happened to me lately that I am proud of myself to have made it thru it all........I feel like I lost so much.......and not sure when I will be able to "trust" anyone again .....if ever.......but, doggone it...I made it thru...by myself
Originally Posted By NikkiLOVESMickey So - where are you from, waht do you look like, how much money do you make, and what do you look for in a woman? Just kidding - glad to see that you're doing well. I know divorce isn't pleasant.
Originally Posted By MomluvsDisney You should be proud of yourself! Even divorce that parts without fighting can be wrenching (as I have personally discovered a few years back) Now you need to concentrate on yourself and getting you back into the groove of life as a single person (~~smile~~)It is not as bad as it feels some times. You will find other people in your life to trust and share with, but it may take some time. As long as you give yourself the time then everything will eventually fall into place. It may be a new spot for you, but you will be able to make it a positive space! I am sending you positive thoughts to keep making it through this continued transition.
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF thanks ..... believe me...I need encouraging words.....I feel numb since the day he left----(7-28) and that I have had no control over anything in my life.....kinda like I am in a glass house watching my life just happen.......I am a 50 year old woman with a 9 year old son ........I just happen to love football and use to live in Kansas City...thus the name KC Chief
Originally Posted By SoThisIsLove {{{KCCHIEF}}} I remember when you first posted the news about him....the heartache we all felt for you. I hope this trial will somehow end up with a beautiful, gorgeous rainbow shining in your heart. I cannot imagine what you are going through....but I am thinking that perhaps just the fact that you can type the word "final" is the start of your healing. Heck, what am I saying? I'm just rambling. I don't know what encouraging words I can give to you, sweetheart. I think the analogy of just watching your life happen to you is something that most of us can relate to in one way or another..... My love to you and your son. (And those poor KC Chiefs. xoxoxoxoxo) ♥
Originally Posted By davewasbaloo ((((KCCHIEF)))) I am glad you are able to close this chapter and move on. I think of you often and I am glad things are moving forward one step at a time. We are always here for you. Take care and enjoy the new future.
Originally Posted By NikkiLOVESMickey <<I am a 50 year old woman with a 9 year old son ........I just happen to love football and use to live in Kansas City...thus the name KC Chief>> Whoops - in my first post I thought you were a male. Anyhoo, best of luck to you and your son, KC.
Originally Posted By Mary Poppins All the best now that you've reached this milestone in life! It signifies much and now you can move on.
Originally Posted By RockyMtnMinnie I remember your post when he first pulled the disappearing act. I was so worried about you. I hope that you are able to move on now to a newer and better life for you and your son. Your LP family is always here for you. You can trust in us. Just take good care of yourself. You deserve the best in life.
Originally Posted By melekalikimaka Hugs, KC! Wishing you and your son the very best life has to offer.
Originally Posted By beamerdog Good for you, KC! I also wish only happiness for your son and you. I remember your posts from a while back and I'm so happy that at least that chapter in your life is behind you. p.s. I know what you went thru - I'm still in the vortex :- (
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF hang in there.....I am still having "good and bad" days.....sometimes, I just cry and other times...I am "ok".......I miss the person that I married.......
Originally Posted By Ursula Hugs to you. I think what you are going through is grief and grieving for the loss of your marriage. I'm sure you really don't want to be with someone who walked out on you...change it around. If it were your sister or daughter who had someone leave them, how would you react? Excactly. You'd want them to be good to themselves and to not waste their time pining over what isn't any more. Well, at least with being a female football fan, there are a LOT of good-looking and decent male Kansas City Chief fans who are single. Even though I assume you're not on the prowl already, why not join a few KC Chiefs message boards to start some new friendships?
Originally Posted By disney pete when things like this happen you sort of deal with it in your own way and hopefully come out the other side quite sane or truly barking you have done really well and should be proud of yourself keep smiling hun.
Originally Posted By amazedncal2 We are always here for your KCCHIEF. My sister said that after her husband left it was one day at a time for her, horrible, gut wrenching, good, OK, not too bad, hey not so bad and so on. Facing one holiday at a time and after the "first" of everything she had typically shared with her husband and had now faced without him, she knew she had made it.
Originally Posted By beamerdog Still going through it, KC. In Delaware I can't get individual health insurance due to my disability. Getting any other assistance can take up to two years. And my health has been really deteriorating this year. So I haven't filed papers yet, but I've been separated for over a year. My husband is an attorney. He can hire an attorney, do the work himself and lawyer me to death. Combined with the health insurance issue, I'm cooked. There's a whole lot more "stuff" that I just don't want to talk about here online. It's so much better that you're finally divorced and can go on with your life.
