Originally Posted By KatieKate123 Please keep my girls in your prayers, their names are Gabby and Elizabeth. As most of you know I don't have a very good family relationship and the one thing that was keeping me going strong was my husband. Well that guy lied to me, and for the past 7 years used me. He went to Mexico on Monday and he hasn't called me since. So you might say I am jumping to conclusions to think he's not coming back, but I just have this feeling. I don't know what it is but I just have a feeling that he's gone. Maybe it's the fact all of his important papers are gone, or the fact that he deleted his brothers phone number out of his phone, or the fact that I have no way to contact him. My girls keep saying mom you are smart find him, I wish it was this easy, but what am I supossed to do?
Originally Posted By alphabetmom So sorry Katie, How scary for you. I hope you get some answers soon.
Originally Posted By DlandDug Katie, this is awful. Contact your local police and report him as a missing person. Give them all the details you know. With all the crime in Mexico these days, they should take an interest. In the meantime, do you have anyone in your circle of friends to offer support right now? Check with your local women's shelter and see if they can offer any kind of support.
Originally Posted By DlandDug Also-- have you been in touch with your bank? Make sure you protect any assets you share. And stop any credit cards he holds-- if he can't use them he may get in contact, and if they have been stolen you need to do this to protect your credit.
Originally Posted By TINK-MOBILE Very sorry to hear of this sad news, I have asked God to send his angels to be with you and guide you thru this very heart breaking time...Your lil angels are under his watchful care...Yes ,Doug is quite correct...contact all of your credit card companies that you both share ...ensure that your financial accounts are protected , please do contact the Authorities of what has happened...Please do take care..we are praying for you...your lil Angels...your husband...God Bless..
Originally Posted By Witches of Morva ORDDU: How terrible. Are there any others close enough for you to turn to where you live, dear? Life can be so cruel at times. At least you know you have friends, here, you can vent to. Many hugs to you.
Originally Posted By seafairy1622 So sorry Katie. I hope you find him soon or he contacts you. When was he suppossed to be back? I'll pray you get some good news soon.
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF Is he from Mexico? were you guys not getting along? you should for sure protect yourself money wise just in case he is up to something Keep a cool head....do watch what you say and do in front of the girls Why do have this feeling he is not coming back?
Originally Posted By iamsally I am so sorry. I understand your pain. I hope you can keep it together enough for your girls. I was put through a similar pain a number of years ago. The first thing I did was close the bank accounts and put all the money in my name. I do pray that you get some answers soon because not knowing is the most painful part I think.
Originally Posted By Witches of Morva ORDDU: Just checking back to see if there are any updates, KatieKate123, duckling. Obviously there are those, here, who are concerned for you. There are a lot of caring souls here at Laughing Place. You've had quite enough to deal with, lately, as it is. We all hate to see you having this latest sadness to go through, too. Just let us know how things are going and feel free to vent with us. Many hugs.
Originally Posted By Mary Poppins Oh dear {{{{KatieKate}}}}}. On top of what you've been through, you have to deal with this. There is good advice in this thread. I hope you find others that help you stay strong. Try to be strong for your girls.
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 He is from Mexico, we were getting along. At least I thought so. I have been talking to his boss every night which has been helping. His boss keeps telling me he is probably drunk, and that he just feels bad for not calling me which is why he isn't calling me but that he should call me b/f I know it. Also he is supossed to be back on July 24th, but he was also supossed to call me on Tuesday or Wednesday of this past week. We actually have never shared bank accounts or anything and have always had seperate accounts, and he left me his bank card so that I could get money out when his check went in since I recently lost my job, so it's not about the money. I just hate not knowing whats going on. If I just knew he was ok, I would be ok.
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 I do appreciate you all caring, I am trying to stay strong for my girls but I keep breaking down at weird times. The fact that I can barely watch a tv show that has a dad in it, is killing me. I just want my girls to be ok.
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF I am sorry you are going thru this I am not sure if you were on these boards back in 2008 or not....but my husband just left on a Monday nite right after dinner and I remember how I felt....he had a drinking problem but long story short..he was having an affair. I did not find out for several months...he lied so much to me and sadly I believed everything... I was so emotionally broken and probably my kids "saved" me you will be okay....just stay strong. please keep us updated. I have been thinking about you all day
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 Thanks I really appreciate you all sending me good thoughts, and thinking about our situation. I would be ok if I just knew he was ok. I mean if he decided to ditch his family I wish he would be man enough to tell me, if he's hurt/ dead or in jail I want to know.
Originally Posted By davewasbaloo Kate Kate, I do not have much in the way of practical advice to offer I am afraid. But I wanted to send a note of support and say I am sending positive vibes your way. Leaving a bank card with you does not sound like the actions of someone leaving, but on the flip side, I am away on business a lot and often speak to my wife 2 - 4 times a day on those days. If you are truly concerned, getting in touch with the authorities may be the way forward. Best of luck sweet spirit, and know this community is full of love and support.
Originally Posted By amazedncal2 Thinking of you and your girls KatieKate and hoping that today is the day that he gets in touch with you.
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 Still hasn't contacted me, and though I agree with you about the bank card, I do for him it's easy to change his person.
