Originally Posted By davewasbaloo Hi guys, I know I don't write in community much anymore, but I really could appreciate some positive thoughts. There are some things I keep off of facebook, and this is potentially one of them. I don't want to worry my little brothers. As some of you may know, we had a rough year last year, and this year is shaping up to be rougher. Mikey is being bullied and harrassed at School, and the head teacher accused us of being disinterested because we are taking time to go through the medical hoops (we have an educational psychologist consult next month (in addition to the speech therapist, who said Mikey's prob is he has the vocabulary of an adult in the mind of a 6 year old; a dietician, who despite the school claiming we are starving him, said nothing is wrong, and confirmed he is following the trends in his parent's genetics; the audiologist, who says Mikey's hearing is fine; the blood work, came back slightly aenemic with a raised thyroid, but the higher end of normal; and so it goes). But this post is not about that. Jessica thankfully seems fine, obsessed with hugging and kissing boys, and had tonsilitis with a scary fever, but touch wood is ok now. I am nearly coming to a year of being self employed, and in many ways, it has been one of the best decisions I ever made. However, the latest engagement has been terrible, and when I wrote a report for the medical association in February, it created a war. My upbeat report showed a positive path forward for my client, with a few tweaks we need to make for it to happen. Instead of colleagues greeting the report happily and signing off to move forward, instead my client is being sued, with a threat on me personally too. It has now had a substantially negative impact and undone a lot of my faith in the system, various charities and politicians, and has me questioning the path forward. Right when I was supposed to go into a key showdown, my body shut down and I contracted pink eye and tonsilitis. The good news is the tonsilitis is now gone, but sadly the pink eye is not responding to treatment, and I am into the hospital tomorrow to see if there is any serious damage and my vision is impaired in the left eye. I need to get better so we can go to Scotland for Easter and our 10th wedding anniversary trip, and every day off sick is a loss of income. But this post is not about that per se. My extended family, things are going from bad to worse. My brothers are all quite young (18, 17 and 13) The 18 year old's disabilities are deteriorating more rapidly than feared. He had a gig with his band the other week, and his body gave way 3 times during an 8 song set. He is all swollen and may need emergency surgery. At first they thought he would be in a wheel chair by the age of 30, but now they fear it is going to be much sooner. He is now registered disabled. The prognosis for the 13 year old is worse. And the depression is taking it's toll on my parents (plus the eldest has a death wish right now). There business is suffering and I fear they will go bankrupt quite soon. The middle brother is acting out right now, he gets virtually no attention given everything else going on and is become quite an unpleasant person. But this post is not about them. I think what worries me most is my bonnie Sarah. Sadly, I have not seen a lot of her while I have been off sick. She is allergic to my medication, and therefore has difficulty breathing if around me too long right now. But earlier in the week, she developed a couple of rashes. I advised she go and see the pharmacist and ask advice. When she went in this morning, the pharmacist said: "Bloody hell, you better go and see a Doctor", then apologised for the expletive. It was a little bit of a scary response. WE went into the Dr this morning, and he is going to run some blood work. He is concerned there may be some blood poisoning of some sort. We will need to find out. On the flip side, he said it could be a rare allergic reaction, but does not want to guess at it. So this post is really a request for your positive thoughts. We are due to get in the car and drive up to Loch Ness to celebrate Easter and our 10th wedding anniversary. I am hopeful that things go well at the eye doctor for me, and that we don't get a phone call from the hospital soon after the blood work is done so that there is a chance we are on the mend. I really want to take the family away (though there is a threat of snow storms too, so it is not looking promissing). But I think we all need a break away together as a family unit. I welcome your positive thoughts, and also your kindness as I post over the next few days (and also, some of you might see why perhaps I have been a little more touchy than usual when posting).
Originally Posted By Goofyernmost Hang in there buddy...I'm sure all will work out. Not without difficulty and stress but fine it will be.
Originally Posted By chickapin ((((Dave)))) Sometimes life just seems to throw everything it's got at us all at once. Please just take one day at a time and tackle one issue at a time. (This is great advice I'm sure--problem is I'm sill trying to learn how to do it myself!!!) You do have friends here...
Originally Posted By mickeymeg Good Grief, When it rains it pours ! I am sorry to hear things are so crappy right now. I will be sending all the positive thoughts I can muster in your direction. I wish all the best for you and your family. You do so much good for those around you, you deserve for life to be happy, healthy and stable. All the best Meg
Originally Posted By Jim in Merced CA Oh man, Dave. When it rains, it pours, huh? Sending out wonderful, positive vibes to you and your whole family. Hang in there buddy.
Originally Posted By Tiggirl Dave, what a lot of stuff to hit you all at once! Hang tough. You've got a great family and you will all get through things together. ((hugs to you guys))!! ~Beth
Originally Posted By friendofdd Dave, I pray for you and your family on a regular basis. I will now be praying for specifics.
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight {{{Dave}}} Positive thoughts vibes and prayers are being sent to you and your whole entire family. You are at your strongest right now believe it or not. Everything for a reason and everything in balance. Wonderful things are comming to you. Every darkenss has it's dawn. I hope it gets to you soon! Dave, hold steady friend. Please keep us informed, as we care so much about you and the family. {{{Dave}}} ( you can never have too many hugs)
Originally Posted By disney pete (((THE BALLOOS))) hey Dave i know your past year or so has been crappy but you and your family are due a break i for one am hoping t rolls around the corner real soon,hope you both get the all clear and have a wonderful easter break with the kids,yes the forcast is rubbish but the love of your family on a great trip should see you through.
Originally Posted By Mary Poppins Prayers being said for you and your family, Dave. I've taken your situation into my prayers. Keep us posted on changes. You're doing a great job coping with a lot of stress. Taken together, it is a lot of stress. Take comfort in your family and concentrate on getting to Scotland with everyone.
Originally Posted By seafairy1622 sorry to hear your having a rough time. hang in there. things will get better.
Originally Posted By Princessjenn5795 Oh Dave, I am so sorry to hear about all of the hard things your family is going through right now! I will send all the positive thoughts I can your way and sincerely hope that your family has better times ahead. I don't know you but from all of the posts I have read you seem to be a remarkable guy, especially in regards to the work you do to help improve the lives of so many people. Keep your head up and I hope things turn around for you quickly!
Originally Posted By onlyme Wow Dave. It's all coming at once, huh. Looking forward to hearing when all of these issues are resolved and long gone. Until then, hang on.
Originally Posted By CuriouserConstance Sorry to hear all of that Dave I hope things turn around. And please kick the crap out of your son's teachers that don't know anything about kids or what they need.
Originally Posted By murfsmom Dave, Hang in there, don't try and conquer everything at once. Your human, take each problem one day at a time.It's the only thing you can do. (((((((hugs)))))) murfsmom
Originally Posted By lesmisfan oh man! talk about a rough patch. I will keep you and your family in my prayers!
Originally Posted By TheParsec Sorry to hear about you and your Family. Prayers being said for you and your family from our Family. Hang in there. Hugs from TheParsec & Family.
Originally Posted By ecdc Best wishes to you, Dave. You're always so positive about things in your life and so it must be hard to maintain that attitude with so many difficulties swirling around you at once. It's my 10 year anniversary in a few months, too, so I know how important it is to make the most of it. I hope for only the best for you, Dave.
