Originally Posted By melekalikimaka <a href="http://www.king5.com/localnews/stories/NW_042607WABvideotapedkissLJ.e6e6a05.html" target="_blank">http://www.king5.com/localnews /stories/NW_042607WABvideotapedkissLJ.e6e6a05.html</a> Gig Harbor school security video use limited after flap over girls' kiss GIG HARBOR, Wash. - Restrictions on the use of security videotape have been tightened at a suburban Tacoma high school after images of two girls kissing were shown to the parents of one of the girls, officials say. Related Content Flap over girls' kiss Keith Nelson, dean of students at Gig Harbor High School, said he saw the students kissing and holding hands in the school's busy commons, checked a surveillance camera and showed the parents the tape because they had asked him a few weeks earlier to alert them to any conduct by their daughter that was out of the ordinary. They then transferred their daughter to a school outside the Peninsula School District, which lies northwest of Tacoma. ___________ What this article doesn't say, but was mentioned on the tv newscast, was that the parents of one of the girls put her into a school that claims to cure homosexuality. "Six weeks, six months, whatever it takes" is what the father said. He also called homosexuality an abomination. So, there are a few issues at work here. Should the school have outed the girl to her family? Should parents be able to have their children spied on even when they aren't breaking any laws? Should parents be allowed to force their children in these sorts of programs?
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<So, there are a few issues at work here. Should the school have outed the girl to her family? Should parents be able to have their children spied on even when they aren't breaking any laws? Should parents be allowed to force their children in these sorts of programs?>> Sure. As long as they don't call the kid any names. ;-)
Originally Posted By Lisann22 Aye yi yi! A school that claims to cure homosexuality? Wow! Nolicky High, home of the Trojans.
Originally Posted By Lisann22 ^^^ It might end up in a gangsta video and then you wouldn't watch - for shame.
Originally Posted By jdub >Should the school have outed the girl to her family?< YES. --that is, IF they also report the kissing activities of ALL OTHER students in the school. >Should parents be able to have their children spied on even when they aren't breaking any laws?< Welllll... I certainly don't think it helps them grow up any. Here's what I am wondering: what led those parents to ask the school to watch out for "out of the ordinary" conduct? >Should parents be allowed to force their children in these sorts of programs?< Parents should be warned that anyone claiming they can cure homosexuality is either deluded, or a charlatan. One should not turn one's children over the the care of deluded people or charlatans.
Originally Posted By melekalikimaka <<Here's what I am wondering: what led those parents to ask the school to watch out for "out of the ordinary" conduct?>> Yeah, that's what I wondered too. They probably figured she was gay and wanted some sort of proof. :-(
Originally Posted By Lisann22 <<<The kiss amounted to a quick "peck," said the girl who remains at the school, a 17-year-old senior described as the daughter of a News Tribune employee.>>> Oh brother. Whether they are gay or not, have these people not seen teenage girls together. Holding hands, hugging, arms around eachother is pretty darn common.
Originally Posted By melekalikimaka I can't imagine the hell that the other girl is going through right now. I just picture how her family is treating her and what she will go through at her new "school". To me, this is why gay teens commit suicide. My heart just breaks for her and for the other kids who go through this. Thankfully, the school feels that they made a mistake and hopefully won't make it again.
Originally Posted By Kar2oonMan My heart just breaks for her and for the other kids who go through this.<< It's important to stop the gayness right away. There's so much evidence that forcing people to pretend to be what they're not ultimately leads to happiness and fulfillment. (Man, it hurts when i jam my tongue into my cheek so hard.)
Originally Posted By SingleParkPassholder I don't know ho wit work sin the state of Washington, but I'd like to see someone level child abuse charges against the parents of the girl who is now off to be "cured". I think it would be great if someone, maybe another adult relative, could be appointed her guardian and restore some sense off normalcy to her life. That is, provided not all her adult relatives are as moronic as her parents. I can't begin to express how utterly stupid I think these parents are, and how they should have al their children removed from them if there are others. Makes Alec Baldwin look like Ward Cleaver.
Originally Posted By Inspector 57 There's a video of two chicks kissing?! Whoa. Makes me wish I were straight!
Originally Posted By ecdc >>Makes Alec Baldwin look like Ward Cleaver.<< An insightful, statement, actually. Those railing against Baldwin's moment of poor judgment and loss of temper don't seem to be as keen to denounce these parents for what amounts to psychological abuse, that they themselves have admitted will continue for as long as it takes.
Originally Posted By Inspector 57 How incredibly sad this whole thing is... A school acting as a parentally-hired private eye... Girls who are or aren't lesbian being outed to the world... Parents who are so desperately stupid that they think homosexuality can be changed. "Can I take this for granted with your eyes over me? In this place, this wintery home I know there's always someone in. Sex crime sex crime - 1984 1984. And so I face the wall, Turn my back against it all. How I wish I'd been unborn Wish I was un-living here. Sex crime sex crime - 1984 1984. I'll pull the bricks down one by one. Leave a big hole in the wall just where you are looking in. Sex crime sex crime - 1984 1984."