Originally Posted By MomluvsDisney Does this woman's audacity know no end? She has set up a website where you can leave a well wish for her and make a donation to her family. Can you believe this?? Bad enough this woman gets food stamps but claims she does not get government support (ahem...food stamps are welfare support...) but only if you acknowledge it I guess. Any way here is the website... <a href="http://thenadyasulemanfamily.com/" target="_blank">http://thenadyasulemanfamily.com/</a> I have left a message telling her exactly what I thought of her ability to mother her fourteen children and pay for them herself (although we all no that will not be the case). Since I am a California resident and a working single mother, I know I will be helping pay for her litter. It makes me so angry that this woman has deliberately had all these children, without working and by using her mother to pay for their basic support. And shame on her mother for supporting her insane quest, as she helped enable this fiasco. These poor babies are the real losers in all this. They are going to be deprived of the real love and time from an affectionate parent or parents. I am a single parent but not for one second would I advocate this way of life. I did not choose to become a single parent, but circumstances came that made it this way. But there is nothing on Gods green earth that would have led me down this path deliberately and more then once. I struggle on days when my DD is sick and demands all my attention, when there are other things I need to do. When I am sick or tired, there is no one else to take care of her. If I don’t work and pay for a place to live and food to eat then she has no where to stay and nothing to eat. If she needs a doctor or a bath, if she needs to play or be cuddled, I am the only one who can do that. By assuming responsibility for her, I made the hard choices that all parents have to make to do the right things for their children instead of the selfish things for themselves. If I struggle to provide all the necessary things for my one child, how can this woman think she can do that for 14? There is no doubt in my mind that she has every intention to use her children to advance a career for herself. And until she manages that, she will have to have the taxpayer, like me, pay for her children. Like we already have been up until this point.
Originally Posted By Main Street Dad <<By assuming responsibility for her, I made the hard choices that all parents have to make to do the right things for their children instead of the selfish things for themselves. If I struggle to provide all the necessary things for my one child, how can this woman think she can do that for 14? There is no doubt in my mind that she has every intention to use her children to advance a career for herself. And until she manages that, she will have to have the taxpayer, like me, pay for her children. Like we already have been up until this point.>> Momluvs, as a divorced dad of two and the primary (nearly zero help from the kids mom) parent I completely agree! Very selfish and stupid of this gal.
Originally Posted By MomluvsDisney Well it is gratifying to find there are people who think as I do. It makes me so anger that I felt that I had to post. I usually avoid highly opinionated postings, but this is such a travesty.
Originally Posted By wahooskipper While being pregnant so often how in the world has she had time for all of that plastic surgery? Only one word describes the need here: Intervention
Originally Posted By utahjosh I feel so bad for the kids. I might donate, if it were to the kid's college funds or directly to cover medical bills for the kids, as long as that irresponsible woman can't get her hands on it.
Originally Posted By -em I wish there was a way to READ the other peoples comments I personally think she's a loon and feel horrible for the kids (and Id be more than happy to adopt the 8 new ones..) because I know they are going to have a rough life... Its like watching a train wreck in slow motion- You know whats going to happen but you cant turn away
Originally Posted By Ursula OMG< I was thinking the same thing, -em. I SO want to read what people are saying.
Originally Posted By DAR I know they have to have a good reason but it would be nice if Child Protective Services could raid the house and take those kids away.
Originally Posted By dshyates No reflection on DAR with what I am about to say, but even an absolute MORON can see the problem with this lady. I know because I see it.
Originally Posted By DAR Now that I think I about, she seems to be mentally ill, that would be reason enough.
Originally Posted By dshyates We don't have to take her kids if she is involuntarily committed to the state hospital.
Originally Posted By gottaluvdavillains I truely think what should happen is all these tv shows and such interviewing her should stop. They should tell her they are not interested in her story and tell her to go home and start being a mom! She made this mess - She should be at home taking care of business - not out doing interviews!
Originally Posted By dshyates I nominate her for CRAZY LADY of the YEAR This lady gives last years Astro-Nut a run for her money.
Originally Posted By DAR <<Now I know I'm ill...I find myself agreeing with DAR...>> When it comes to issues with kids especially this I don't think it's something that should fall down ideological lines.
Originally Posted By gottaluvdavillains Sadly this is like a car wreck and everyone is "rubbernecking" to see what is going on... the sad thing is that these poor kids will suffer probably all their lives because of her choices!~
Originally Posted By MOLLYSMOM "Water cooler" talk here at work today... "Who's going to get stuck paying the horrendous hospital bill?" "That idiot freakin' fertility doctor who agreed to let her do this ought to be handed the bill." I kinda liked that idea.
