Originally Posted By goodgirl Topic: Measure Your Fears Question: Call off your wedding. __You did. __You would. __You would not. Offer details for your response if you like.
Originally Posted By sherrytodd I would if it were the right thing to do, like you're about to head to the wedding and you found the body of his previous wife buried in the basement.
Originally Posted By 4Disnee sherrytodd, LOL Yeah I think that I would call it off also if that was the case. Yikes! I guess that it would all depend on what the deal was. Was he cheating or something like that then yes it is off.
Originally Posted By officerminnie Never had to do that, but I would if I realized he was the wrong guy for me. Hopefully I would make that realization long before wedding plans were too far underway.
Originally Posted By gaydsnywitch I don't think this is a question that will come up for me anytime soon. I would hope that I would know him well enough beforehand that if we actually got to the point of planning a wedding, there would not be any need to call off the wedding.
Originally Posted By avromark I hope that I know my bride to be well enough before then, so I hope I will not, but I can never say never.
Originally Posted By melekalikimaka I didn't call off my own. I would call off a wedding but I hope I wouldn't wait till the last moment to do it. I've always wondered, usually after the wedding ceremony you have to sign the marriage certificate and file it. I wonder what would happen if you refused to sign the certificate? I wonder what happens then?
Originally Posted By Autopia Deb I would Maybe if I'm ever in the engaged situation again I should get that wedding insurance (since I didn't even have to give this a little thought). Although, since I've already had the wedding I wanted I'd be perfectly happy with the court house thang.
Originally Posted By RAM1984 I never have but I certainly would if I found out something that would make the marriage a mistake. Much better than going through with it and having to deal with a divorce. Mele, laws vary from state to state but the license is what makes it a legal marriage. In some states all you have to do is mail in the certificate, no ceremony required. So I would think that if the papers aren't signed and filed you would still be single.
Originally Posted By Labuda I have not, and I'd like to think I'm a good enough judge of character I never would.
