Originally Posted By DDMAN26 *To every guy who knows which girl he wants. *To every guy that's said, "Sex can wait." *To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful." *To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her. *To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick. *To every guy who has given her flowers just because. **To every guy that said he would die for her. ****To every guy that really would. *To every guy that did what she wanted to do. *To every guy that cried in front of her. *To every guy that she cried in front of. *To every guy that holds hands with her. ****To every guy that kisses her with meaning. *To every guy that hugs her when she's sad. *To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all. *To every guy who would give their jacket up. *To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe. *To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to be able to see her for ten minutes. *To every guy that would give his seat up. **To every guy that just wants to cuddle. *To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what. *To every guy who told his secrets to her. ***To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath. *To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one. *To every guy that believed in her dreams. *To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them. *To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams. *To every guy that walked her to her car. *To every guy that wasn't just trying to get laid. *To every guy that actually listened. *To every guy that gave his heart only to have it shoved back in his face. *TO EVERY GUY THAT PRAYS THAT SHE IS HAPPY EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT WITH HER. This one is for you guys... There's not many of you left out there . Not all girls appreciate nice guys.... But don't worry about them because they're missing out. If you are a nice guy repost this: "Nice guys finish last." If you are a girl that appreciates nice guys and thinks every guy should try to encompass even a few of these repost this: "To the nice guys"
Originally Posted By berol I had a chat with a female about nice guys a few years back. The feeling was nice guys are boring cuz they're putting their energy into making her happy instead of into having a relationship. "sweetest guy I've ever met, but I never saw much of *him*. Where is his personality!?" He sets himself aside TOO much for her.
Originally Posted By DVC_dad LOL ..... LOL Sometimes every decade or so, a nice guy finishes first. Gald I was he.
Originally Posted By cape cod joe DVC--You're so humble too, and you should be now that you made the mistake of your life and got rid of your beloved Yukon XL
Originally Posted By DVC_dad Aye, but you don't know what replaced it MY New England Blue Blooded Friend! No wonder GM is going bankrupt, they are giving cars away! $6000 rebate or 0% interest for 72 monts!!! I mean, come on, no WONDER they are going broke! Muhahahaha. .......sorry, back to the topic before we kill it.......
Originally Posted By Phantom When it comes to women, nice guys attract nice girls. Nice guys are marriage material, as are nice girls. If you are just looking for a fling, yes, nice guys do finish last. Jerks win in this category. The lesson: If a guy is looking for a fling, he should be a jerk. He will be rewarded and she won't expect much from him. Likewise, guys will chase bad girls, but they will end up marrying good girls.
Originally Posted By Liberty Belle >>When it comes to women, nice guys attract nice girls<< Yeah I agree. People say being a nice person "isn't enough" - but really, it's a pretty good start!
Originally Posted By avromark Yeah, and where do you find the right one? Those such as Klucky or Lukesgirl know my rather conservative views (despite what you see here, my morals are pretty uh uptight). Seems to me it's just to hard to find those. Do I change my morals or what?
Originally Posted By avromark I mean really how hard is it to find an Amazon Woman with a beard and webbed feet who likes to recite poetry at night, and hobbies include counting grains of rice?
Originally Posted By avromark I mean really how hard is it to find an Amazon Woman with a beard and webbed feet who likes to recite poetry at night, and hobbies include counting grains of rice?
Originally Posted By TALL Disney Guy They're probably all walking right outside his home right now, while he's sitting here posting at LP (heehee)
Originally Posted By avromark Heh, I haven't played in an organized league since college. C'est la vie Like I wasn't asking for it with my addition to my post.
Originally Posted By SFH >>Yeah, and where do you find the right one? Those such as Klucky or Lukesgirl know my rather conservative views (despite what you see here, my morals are pretty uh uptight). Seems to me it's just to hard to find those. Do I change my morals or what?<< Never change who you are (unless we're talking getting rid of bad habits and self-destructive behavioral patterns). Do not settle. First, you have to know enough about yourself to know what you need and what you want and who you get along with best. First, do you want someone to marry or just someone to be with for as long as it is "fun"? What are your deeply held beliefs that guide your life? What are your goals? What attracts you to a person but won't get on your nerves five, ten, twenty years down the line? What kind of personality and intellect do you need in a partner? Those are your starting points in developing a profile for "the one". Once you know who you are looking for, it will be easier to know where to look for that person. At least, this is the approach that worked for me.
Originally Posted By cape cod joe DVC--I'm putting off my workout for this! What did you get???????????????????? I won't be jealous)) Will you be at Duluth today for Open with your new???????????
Originally Posted By avromark Since you asked. First, do you want someone to marry or just someone to be with for as long as it is "fun"? Holy Matrimony, marraige in church, not a civil service (Ok I guess that leaves out a few people) What are your deeply held beliefs that guide your life? I'm christian, pro-life (i'm not an activist), i'm a meat eater, no real special dietary restrictions, would go nuts with kosher (no bacon cheese burgers!), go nuts with vegetarian (I do eat vegetarian dishes, but I do like the odd steak, pork chop, meat loaf), I tend to mainly vote canadian right (that would be american democrat), i'm anti violence, I beleive in martial arts for self defence and self control, as well as exercise, etc. I like most sports except american football, enjoy bowling, shinny, bonspiels, so-so on tennis. My ideas of sport is recreational. I like skiing, ski-doos. My idea of a pool is for fun, not to do laps or dive I like nature, but I also like the city (I enjoy RVing, heh yeah i'm to young ), but also like live theatre. Not into concerts heh. (Miss Candice will now repremand me). I believe in the nuclear and extended family. I'm not into any alternative lifestyles that I know of. I believe that criminals should be punished, not released. I think healthcare needs more funding. What are your goals? Pay off mortgage, get a job that pays better, complete my education (Ok so i'm part way there, i've at least graduated heh), life long learner. Retire at 20 (heh that never happened.) Have a family. Live comfortable, maybe get a cottage someday. What attracts you to a person but won't get on your nerves five, ten, twenty years down the line? Uh love of church, family, respect of God and all life, someone who is not a nudist. What kind of personality and intellect do you need in a partner? I want as close to 50/50 as possible. I enjoy cooking, and some other things viewed as womanly, i'm a relatively clean and organized individual so chaos would drive me nuts. I don't want someone who has to ask me "Should I buy the beige or the taupe?" but I don't want someone who'll go "By the way honey, I just sold the house and we're going to live on a houseboat". I want a hand in raising the kids, I will do housework, but don't want to do it all (heh being single, this is a big one, cuz if I don't clean it, it stays dirty). Those are your starting points in developing a profile for "the one". Once you know who you are looking for, it will be easier to know where to look for that person. I'm looking for umm uh umm Judge Judy? Nope. I want someone a bit kinder and loving. Martha Stewart? She forgot her Polish roots, trys to portray herself as super woman, I don't want someone who will expect me to be super human. Pink? She parties a bit more then me, a bit less modest (I will not wear speedo's for example). Tall Disney guy, umm first off he's a guy... (I picked on him cuz he'd understand i'm only using him as an example), umm he's a guy, No thank-you. No offence to those who like guys, but my ideal woman, has to be a lady. Miss Candice, well she enjoys being single, so heh and she's an athiest or something (She know's i'm only kidding, she'd make a great bridesmaid though). Ladyklucky beamerdog, etc, well lets see their currently married, and extremely happy with their husbands, Besides I think i'd drive them nuts. Although I share Ladyklucks view on food Also I could never see myself with someone who's old enough to be my mom (although beamerdog would make a great aunt i'm betting) Aunt beamer can I borrow indefinately your car? I'd use examples of people I know, but uh that would have no bearing to someone here. And I don't think posting my feelings about people on a message board is wise.
