Originally Posted By RoadTrip Rosie's service was beautiful. Over 150 people came to remember her. Rosie always saw the good in every person and the good in every situation... it left her with very many friends. Here is a link to the slide show that was shown at the memorial service: https://netfiles.umn.edu/xythoswfs/webui/_xy-11196138_1-t_oKxKljjZ -Jerry
Originally Posted By RoadTrip Sorry it is not direct link... I guess you will have to copy/paste. -Jerry
Originally Posted By DAR Once again thanks for sharing. Btw, you seem to be holding up okay, hopefully that's a fair assessment.
Originally Posted By TINK-MOBILE Rosie will always be with you Road Trip... May the memories of her wonderful being,, bring sunshine to your heart each and every day... God Bless you my Friend.... Hugs forever and a day ...amen oxoxoxox
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<Once again thanks for sharing. Btw, you seem to be holding up okay, hopefully that's a fair assessment.>> I am extremely lonely. Rosie was my wife, my lover, and my very best friend. I am doing OK because I know I have to. Every night before I go to bed I plan what I will do in the coming day. If I wake up without a plan it is really bad. I've learned not to do that. -Jerry
Originally Posted By officerminnie I do not envy you, Jerry. When DH passed away, I remember thinking how "fortunate" I was to have two young sons at home. I couldn't imagine how awful and lonely it would be to rattle around in our home all by myself, missing DH's presence. At least with the kids, I had to keep some semblance of normalcy going, which sometimes meant having "a plan" other than just our day to day routine. Sad that two boys lost their dad, but at least it helped to keep me in better spirits and forced me to keep on keepin' on. The slideshow was lovely and really shows that Rosie lived life to the fullest. Things will get better for you in time, I promise.
Originally Posted By Mr X Is there any way that you could perhaps spend a few weeks with your daughter or another family member? I think having some activity around you in the mornings might be helpful.
Originally Posted By Mary Poppins My prayers and thoughts are with you as you take another step on this journey with grief. That's a good idea, Mr. X. Can you plan some visits with family, RoadTrip?
Originally Posted By BlueDevilSF I said it over on Facebook, and I'll say it again here: I am deeply sorry I missed the service. My heart sank when I realized the day of the service was the same day as the procedure. If there's anything I can do from here, or if you ever just want to talk, give me a shout. I'll make sure you have all my numbers.
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight RT, Rosie had a 'dash' full of love and joy. That was such a beautiful slideshow. Thank you for shareing that. {{RT}} For those who don't know the Dash poem, I've posted the link. <a href="http://www.simpletruths.tv/dashpoem/" target="_blank">http://www.simpletruths.tv/dashpoem/</a>
Originally Posted By Ursula The slideshow was great! I loved the part with the Mouse Ears. Jerry, have you thought about getting a fish tank? I know it sounds weird. I have a stressful job and I've found that my fish tank helps sooth all sorts of problems. There is a physical part to it (cleaning, daily feeding) but then the zen part of it is unreal. Plus, you are in control of their entire world.
Originally Posted By amazedncal2 RT, thank you for sharing your loving slide show with us. I loved the "kitchen shots" A suggestion that my mom found very helpful (and still does) when my dad passed away was to keep the TV or radio on from the minute she gets up until she goes to sleep. She found that the stillness in the house made her lonely. A radio talk show, mixed with some TV shows that my dad didn't care for and followed up by some big band music that they used to dance to (and she'd dance) and then back to some TV, helped her get through the day. We are thinking of you! Have you considered coming to CA for the Big Meet? There will be hundreds of people to keep you busy.
Originally Posted By Disneymom443 Surround yourself with loved ones. I'm your kids will not mind if dad somes around for a little bit. Try not to think about tomorrow or the next day, just work on today. Everyday is today and live in that moment. We are here for you, and you can all upon us at any time. There is a song by Alan Jackson called Sissy's song. Everytime I hear it, I think of your Rossie. (((((big hugs Jerry))))
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF I, understand fully ...about having a plan for the next day. I lost my best friend, lover also. I am so sorry for your loss...and I do not know you personally....(even though I feel like I do) BUT....I can tell just from your posts..you are going to be "ok". My thoughts are with you every day.
Originally Posted By iamsally It is so kind of you to share with us. It really shows us what a very special life you two shared. We wish you all our best. Ruthie and Rod
Originally Posted By FilmNoir ***RT, thank you for sharing your loving slide show with us. I loved the "kitchen shots"*** Someone at the service shared the very funny story behind those kitchen shots....apparently alcohol was involved. LOL LOL
Originally Posted By Princessjenn5795 Your Rosie had a very beautiful smile...it shows that beautiful spirit was behind it.
Originally Posted By LuLu BTW I second that emotion of you visiting during the December "Big Meet" - a great idea!!
