Originally Posted By peeaanuut Oh boy and I absolutely ticked off right now. I just got 3 phone calls from people saying that someone is going around and telling lies and making me look bad. Backstory: I am the team photographer for the Long Beach Armada baseball team. I was also the Booster Club vice president last year. We had a member that really was a headache to the group. he was one of those "well, what do I get?" kind of people. My standard answer was "a good feeling deep down". He did not like that. Well the last game of the season he got into my face and wanted to fight me because I did not give him a free team photo, which I was selling. He demanded one and said he does more for the team than anyone blah blah blah. Than he threw insults my way and I jumped on him. Anyways he was escorted out of the stadium. So now he has gone around to alot of the fans and even the new GM of the team and told them I was stealing money from the team and stealing money from the boosters to do my photography business. Which of course I never did. Any money for my photography came out of pocket (ink, paper, lens rental, new equipment, packaging, etc.) Over the course of the season I lost money because I do not charge the players for photos and only charge their parents my cost with no profit. The only people I charged were the general fans. Anyways, I have now gotten 3 and 1 more has just come in while I am typing this. Accusing me of stealing and calling me a cheat and basically bad mouthing me. I have tried my best to explain the situation and they understand but it just irks me that he is going around doing this. Ok, thanks for listening.
Originally Posted By Mrs Nurmi The best way to take care of this would be this: The next time someone calls, thank him/her for brining the situation to your attention. Tell them that you appreciate their call. Ask for their name & contact information, and let them know that you are taking notes on your conversation, to build up evidence for your slander suit. That usually stops everyone cold, and you can bet that the information will get back to the offending party. I loathe buttheads.
Originally Posted By BlazesOfFire ooh hearing stuff like that irks me. What is wrong with people???!!!!!
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter I love Mrs. Nurmi's advice! This stinks 'Nuut. Unfortunately there are some ugly people in this world. I hope he shuts up soon.
Originally Posted By JazzCat Oh, sorry. I guess it is slander. Libel is the written word. It's been 22 years since I've had a journalism class!
Originally Posted By bloona that's awful, I hope that people see what the truth is and see the liar for who they really are. Good luck.