Originally Posted By DVC_dad <<<Well, dang it, DVC, you go and be all nice. How can I compete with that?! ;-)>>> You can't, I win. KIDDING!!! Well are CCJ's comments still in WE or have they been removed? I am YET to read ANYTHING at all. I can't bring myself to muttle through all the WE stuff to try and FIND what I am not sure what it looks like....... *gasp* I can't even say what I am trying to say.
Originally Posted By chickendumpling I think what you are trying to say, Chris, is that you and Pixie et al have worked things out and we are all moving on now, right? lol
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter <off topic> All the offending posts have long since been redlined. <back on topic> GROUP HUG!!!
Originally Posted By LadyKluck Oh terrific, after all of this, I'm the one that sends DVC_dad over the edge by mentioning the 'P' word. Sorry everyone!
Originally Posted By chickendumpling Klucky, the man has SIX children. He went over the edge lonnng ago. (and thanks for your kind comment @ me.
Originally Posted By mele <<I have totally lost respect for at least 1 person here, and I'm pretty shaky with a couple others.>> I'm not sure if this is aimed at me or not but I don't find these sorts of vague statements any different than the negative posts you are alluding to.
Originally Posted By Lisann22 <<<Lisann, ReadingMom, Pixie and I have worked it out. I would like to say to you two that if I have offended you in any way, (and I have, and I know in what way) I apologize.>>> DVC_dad - we are all good. I stated and tried to state in your thread twice, that I had no issue with you nor thought you were leaving was the right thing to do. I am not offended in any way. I'm fine.
Originally Posted By Lisann22 I'm pretty sure it's me and I take responsibility for being upset last night and making one post I wish I could take back. I'm human. If you want to judge me on one post over 5 years, have at it. Otherwise, I feel that I have tried very hard to explain my position and concerns in an calm, reasonable, mature way in several threads. I also said that the Community Standards should be for all, including myself.
Originally Posted By wendebird >>I have totally lost respect for at least 1 person here, and I'm pretty shaky with a couple others.<< Can open, worms everywhere.
Originally Posted By DVC_dad WARNING: THE FOLLOWING COMMENTS WILL SEEM LIKE CROW TO MANY. <<<HAHA. If only it was always so easy.>>> It is that easy...but IF and only IF you are sincere from the heart. The secret to love is that you just can't give up, even upon death itself. If you love someone, I mean really really love someone, it may take months, maybe even years, but loving someone makes you treat that person in a certain way...an unconditional way. True love, loves NOT for what someone is, but in spite of what someone is. Eventually, the person you love, will if nothing else, accept that you care about them, and in most cases at least acknowledge your love for them, and now and then maybe even love you back. I have a sister-in-law, who makes it her business in this life to not allow ANYONE (including her own spouse and her own kids) to get too close to her emotionally. It's true. My story is simple. I love her. She hates me. She knows how I act, she thinks me to be a charletan, an idiot, a fraud. She is wrong. I am sincere. We have been at this game for 11 years. I have done everything humanly possible to PROVE to her that my love for her is honest and well set. Eventually she too will realize somehow, some way that I REALLY do love her and care about her. It may be tomorrow, it may be next year, it may be after I am gone. But eventually she will get it, because I am the one who loves her. It is soooo much easier to hate someone, than to love someone. That has a lot to do with the fact that, it is also easier to be angry at someone than to be hurt by that same person. When you love someone, you are open to hurt, but the problems lay with the person doing the hating, not he person doind the loving. The person who is doing the loving can't do anything else nor anything more. Hating is easy, loving unconditionally is very hard. Now please, someone slap me and tell me I am full of crow.
Originally Posted By mele No, I just meant that it would be nice if it was always so easy to see who won and who lost. You were being funny and I was just joking with you in return. Yes, wouldn't it be nice if it was always so easy. I'm glad that you are so positive about love and sure that everything will work out in the end. I disagree, but that is a subject for another thread, another day.
Originally Posted By chickendumpling Well thanks for making me cry, VCR. I feel so vulnerable here. I hate that feeling. lol
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<<<I have totally lost respect for at least 1 person here, and I'm pretty shaky with a couple others.>> I'm not sure if this is aimed at me or not but I don't find these sorts of vague statements any different than the negative posts you are alluding to.>> You are all so vain!!! It's about ME, ME, ME -- ROADTRIP!! Is that so hard to understand? These are the reasons: 1) I'm short. No one respects short people. Randy Newman was right. 2) I wear boxer briefs. A lot of people here have problems with a guy in his 50's wearing boxer briefs. 3) I once made a regrettable comment on LP about Katharine McPhee from American Idol. Entirely truthful and honest, but not good for public consumption. 4) I made no strong objection to a New Englander's post or a Southerner's presumed defense of him. Well, 1-3 will have to stand on their own merits. Number four I will probably have to explain. The Cape does strange things to folks... just look at the Kennedy's. So after a couple of early go rounds I tried to pass off everything said as C.R.A.P. (Cape Results in Absolute Poppycock). When our good man DVD dad went to the defense of Massachusetts, he was doing so out of loyalty to a guy he talked about golf with. Guys who play golf are weird about that. They would say Hitler was an OK guy if he had played golf. Which to the best of my understanding he didn't. But added to that was the fact that I don't think VCR dad visited World Events very frequently. Let's face it. A guy making all those babies can't take the chance of losing the mood by reading WE garbage. So... NFL dad was combining a golfer's natural kinship with anyone else swinging the sticks with a profound lack of knowledge as to the things going on over at WE. In other words... he didn't know squat about what he was talking about. But we all love him anyway. At least I do. So... got that? The only person anyone lost respect for was me. But that's OK because there wasn't much there to begin with! (Sorry to go so far off topic kind of but that's just the way I am.)
Originally Posted By chickendumpling <<In other words... he didn't know squat about what he was talking about. But we all love him anyway. At least I do.>> ROFL! Which is why I love both a yous. lol! (sorry PixieGlitter. returning thread to topic now. lol)
Originally Posted By ReadingMom <<The secret to love is that you just can't give up, even upon death itself. If you love someone, I mean really really love someone, it may take months, maybe even years, but loving someone makes you treat that person in a certain way...an unconditional way. True love, loves NOT for what someone is, but in spite of what someone is. >> <---bows head down Now I need to go out to 2oony's office and apologize to him for snapping at him today. and yesterday. and the day before. Stupid menopausal crap!
Originally Posted By friendofdd I am grateful for RoadTrips's post. While an excellent topic, it was getting to be really sappy.
Originally Posted By DlandJB Listen my friends, I have no idea what happened and I'm glad I missed the fireworks. I only know that here there be good souls and warm hearts. My only regret now is that I will always know that RoadTrip is wearing boxer briefs.