Originally Posted By Deogges Mom 1. Do you still use the given name you were born with? Yes. I didn't change it when I got married. 2. If not, is the name you use now derived from your original name (e.g., "Johnny" from "John")? I use my given name. I few people try to shorten it to Lis, I that bugs me. One person calls me LiLi and gets by nwith it, only because her sister's name is Lisa and that what she goes by. 3. Is your new name official (on your driver's license, passport, credit cards, whatever)? That's why I never changed my name when I got married, it just seemed like too much trouble to change it.