Originally Posted By Jim_n_Ruth Only by certain individuals. Most of the folks here are super. I would like to see this type of discussion end right here. It's unproductive, and probably hurtful to very nice people here.
Originally Posted By scottie I know gay people who have practiced heterosexual behavior. Does that count?
Originally Posted By gurgitoy2 "If you don’t fully embrace the gay lifestyle/movement then you are ignorant and full of hate! I wasn't going to touch this topic with a ten foot pole....till I saw this statement. This is totally untrue. Just because someone differs with the lifestyle of another means there is hatred or ignorance. It's merely a right to ones own opinions. To supress those rights are the true ignorance." Well, that post was intended to be sarcastic. It was directed from one poster to another. With sarcasm like that though, it's not surprising that these posters feel like they are made out to be the "homophobes" and "ignorant". Ok, I suppose we should all try to be more understanding of each other, but when certain people already come into the topic on the offensive, they had better expect some defensive behavior. It's certainly not very open minded, and it's obvious certain folks will not change their minds based on topics like these. I'll admit to getting on the defensive, but it's only because I've had to defend my "lifestyle" for years. I'm sure I'll get to the point where I won't care what anybody thinks about me, but I'm not quite there yet.
Originally Posted By TMICHAEL Yes Labuda very funny, we needed that. hugz 2 U But I just have to ask those that want this topic to end, why are you folks clicking on the topic if not to at the very least lurk?? If you don't like it when folks have a heated discussion then don't click on the topic and go to the next. Personally, I have no hate towards any of the people who have an opinion even if it differs greatly from my own. That is what makes each of us unique and interesting. And without discussion and conflict, how can we learn and possibly better ourselves?
Originally Posted By deadgurl Please let it be serious. And let it be known that you needn't embrace anything other than your own beliefs or lifestyle. The rest of us are more than willing to allow you that. Not knowing you, I really can't elaborate on your hate, ignorance or lack there of.
Originally Posted By deadgurl jmuboy, keep the S.P. refrences coming. And, Scottie, I love you! Maybe not enough to know what hetero-gay stuff you're referring to but, I love you just the same.
Originally Posted By oc_dean >>The gay community is a lifestyle based on sexuality << So, by that definition .. people who are gay .. only meet up with other men for the sake of sex .. and love, emotion are devoid. Truly a pity someone here on the boards actually thinks that way.
Originally Posted By Jim_n_Ruth <--- wonders about thw wisdom of putting a topic about gay days "to bed" And YOU who stood in judgment of me in the past? Go figure. Little bit of double standards? Makes me wonder.
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Originally Posted By jasmine7 <<Your right I forgot the bathhouses in SF were like church or an AA meeting where people would come for love and emotional support!!!<< Yeah, just like the strip clubs and whore houses are for straight people. Just unbelievable. You know what, patrick? There are bad behaviors in EVERY group of people, but that is absolutely NO reason to condemn the entire group! Honestly. . .
Originally Posted By patrickegan I never said there weren’t all I’m saying is just don’t push it on people who don’t want it. Especially semi- captive audiences at family centric venues.
Originally Posted By TMICHAEL Hey patrick, I totally agree with you on the issues of foul, lewd or overly suggestive t-shirts and rude/lewd behaviour in the parks. And that goes for both homo and hetero. I will even go so far as to say that the employee that wore one of the most suggestive shirts AND his name tag should have been terminated for inappropriate behaviour. BUT you are greatly mistaken if you think that any legal culture in these United States shouldn't gather and enjoy WDW/Disneyland as a group. Please tell us, are the gays pushing it on you just by being there? If so, I don't recall any "gay recruiters" in the parks. Nor did I ever see anyone forcing you to watch the festivities of same sexers holding hands, hugging, having fun and 'gasp' kissing just like normal folk. If you are so against exposing your family to a REAL facet of modern life then go to City Hall where they just might refund your days entrance. >>>Your right I forgot the bathhouses in SF were like church or an AA meeting where people would come for love and emotional support!!!<<< >>The gay community is a lifestyle based on sexuality << It is these types of remarks, however, that truly show your ignorance on the subject.
Originally Posted By Jim_n_Ruth Hey patrick, I totally agree with you on the issues of foul, lewd or overly suggestive t-shirts and rude/lewd behaviour in the parks. And that goes for both homo and hetero BRAVO!!! They shouldn't be allowed in public places period. I won't say what the shirt said that I saw a girl wearing in a crowded diner one night but....If I were that manager, I would have asked her to either cover it up, go into the ladies room to turn it inside out, or I'd refuse to serve her. I probably would have gotten sued but....Sometimes you just have to put your foot down, and not allow that in your establishment. Freedom of expression issues? Yes. I exercised mine too!
