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Originally Posted By hopemax 999Haunts the posts were from the resident sockpuppet just like these new posts are. Registered today, and spamming threads.
Originally Posted By KCCHIEF no....that poster was so ridiculous.... that was for sure a sock puppet.... Seriously, she is going thru enough...pick on someone else.... Katie, you do not have to defend yourself to anyone....
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Originally Posted By Inspector 57 <<Something has happened with the admin where if any of the long term posters here does not like what you say they call you a Troll and then your gone.>> Your post is interesting for more than its grammatical errors, Testtrackz. Your first LP post was today. You're a sock puppet.
Originally Posted By Inspector 57 KatieKate123, I'm so sorry for your pain. I know what it's like to be crazy in love with someone. Crazy -- literally -- in love. No judgement there. And of course you're understandably upset at not knowing whether he's safe. AND -- of course! -- you absolutely don't deserve to be harrassed by a troll on this thread. Having said all that... You're a bit of a drama queen, aren't you? I mean... ... In your initial post, you used the fact that he took his "papers" as a sign that something was very, very wrong. But when asked, it came out that he was SUPPOSED to take his papers to Mexico with him in order to do something that would help the both of you. ... You're complaining that he hasn't called you, yet you've got his phone. And you haven't cleared up whether he has other access for getting in touch with you. ... You say that you've contacted someone who's informed you that he went on vacation, but you can't get any more information. Why not? ... In your first post you said, "Well that guy lied to me, and for the past 7 years used me. He went to Mexico on Monday and he hasn't called me since." Turns out later in the thread that he's not supposed to be back until next week. So... he was SUPPOSED to take his papers. He does NOT have his phone. He is NOT supposed to be home yet. I'm not doubting your pain. And I truly have only sympathy for someone who is in love with someone who causes them pain. But -- I have to say -- the way you're unravelling your story makes me question at least your presentation of it.
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 What I said at first was spoken out of pain, and most likely not when my head was working so let me tell you all exactly how this went down, so that no one is confused, and no one thinks I am a drama queen. My husband left on June 27th and yes he left his phone here. That was a Monday, he told me he would use a friends phone and call me on Tuesday or Wednesday. I have not heard from him since. I am worried about his phone b/c I can't find any proof that he called his brother like he said he had. I am also worried that he took his papers because he isn't coming back. I am not sure what he needs in court, all I know is that he is supossed to go to court so that he can come home. 3 weeks of not talking is a very long time. I just can't imagine him not calling his boss or me for three weeks when he promised he would call back on June 28th. The person I called in Mexico wouldn't give me any more info b/c I don't speak that great of Spanish. This person only spoke Spanish, and I don't even know if I understood him correctly. When I called him back he laughed and wouldn't talk anymore. No way for me to know what is really going on with that guy. AM I jumping to conclusions? Maybe Am I getting myself hyped up since he's not supossed to be back until Monday? Maybe. But I am truly and utterly worried, b/c I can't imagine him not calling to say that he's ok or not. That he got to Mexico safely or not. I am really really worried about him, and I can't explain it but I feel like I am in a dream and I just want to wake up.
Originally Posted By quincytoo I agree with all you said, IN 57...... I have to wonder about the part of seeing his son.....How many times did he see his son during the 7 years? How many times was the child up with you becoming part of your family? I had a friend once who married a man who had two children and never hardly saw them, I asked her if it upset her and she said not at all, that she knew he loved *their* own two girls and would never do *that to them. I pointed out that she should be trying to get him to be more of a parent to the other two as well. Guess what?? He did leave them and lost contact with his second set of children as well.
Originally Posted By 999HAUNTS I still dont understand how someone not sympathizing gets admined whether they are new or old.
Originally Posted By quincytoo The first adminned post I saw was rightly so adminned. While I don't think that everything adds up here or at least that KK might have posted a little hastily in some spots. (I am sure she would cringe if her DH was to read this thread because if she is wrong about her assumptions then he should be very hurt at what she has posted)maybe just maybe he has no access to a phone or the place where he is staying has no long distance? We travel to Mexico quite a lot and not all families have the same basic comforts we take for granted, as for KK phoning his friend, if he didn't speak english and KK doesn't speak Spanish, then he didn't know who phoned him and then KK's DH wouldn't even know that KK is trying to reach him. I just think it is weird that KK has no contact with her DH's family at all....After 7 years I would think she should have phone numbers, addresses and such how many birthday's, holidays and such have gone by not to have had some contact. Like I said, it is not adding up for me but it doesn't mean that I don't feel bad for what she is going through.
Originally Posted By Testtrackz >>< Your first LP post was today. You're a sock puppet.<< Proves my point thank you. I'm new, this person does not agree with me, Im a puppet. Sad... My friends where right about some people here.
Originally Posted By Testtrackz >>Like I said, it is not adding up for me but it doesn't mean that I don't feel bad for what she is going through.<< You agree with me are you a puppet?
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 To everyone who likes kicking people while they are down. This past month, my head has been ready to explode, I am not thinking straight, and I am stressed out. Does this mean that everything I am saying makes perfect sense no, because when I look back on it, it dosen't make sense to me either but unfortunally its the truth. To answer about the kid in Mexico, and how close he was. He talked to his kid every day on the phone. Though he was unable to see him because he wasn't legal (thats why he had court), he did send money every week to help support his kid. So it's not like he abandoned his kid like you must think all mexicans do. Second off his brothers and he were never close. They live 14 hour car ride away from us, and he hasn't seen them in 8 years. Is this uncommon no. Are there people in your family that just dosen't get along. Most likely. My mom barely sees her family. I never see my Dad. So is it uncommon no. Should I have questioned it, I don't think so.
Originally Posted By quincytoo Actually I have many Mexican friends and I find that they have stronger family bonds that we do. I am happy to hear he remained as close to his son as he could be. If he talked to his son every day then have you tried phoning the child's mother or the number listed in the cell phone or what ever phone he used? She might have contact with him still or know where he is at, or could get a message to him at very least. Nope I am not a puppet, LOL, check out how many posts I have and how long I have been on these boards.
Originally Posted By KatieKate123 Unfortunally most of the mexican phone numbers in his phone were called with a phone card and all that is coming up is the stupid phone cards number which dosen't help.
Originally Posted By Yahtzee Nay Nay "So it's not like he abandoned his kid like you must think all mexicans do." Ummmm, that's a lovely generalization, but I'd like to point out that NOBODY in this thread has said this except for you. I understand that you are emotional, but the truth is you posted all your problems on a public website where anyone can voice their opinion. I understand that you did it to try to get comfort, but that doesn't mean people aren't going to question or discuss what has been posted. I think this is an issue that is better discussed with close friends, not out in public. This is essentially akin to standing in the middle of Main Street and shouting all your problems at people passing by. Sure, some people will stop and try to help you, but others are just going to stare with a strange fascination or make comments that you aren't going to like. Maybe you should try to get contact information from the posters that have given you support here and discuss these matters in a more private setting, not in a Disney related discussion board. Please understand, I am not trying to attack you here, I just don't think this is the best place for you to get the help or support you are looking for.
Originally Posted By tashajilek Everyone here should be mature enough not to put there 2 cents where it doesnt belong. People on these boards have been posting personal issues for a long time now. If Katie gets comfort here on LP then thats awesome! Katie, some people are just out there to nit pick and stir the pot. I really hope you get some answers soon.
Originally Posted By Autopia Deb >>>Everyone here should be mature enough not to put there 2 cents where it doesnt belong.<<< Maybe they should, but as we've seen especially in the Admined posts, that isn't happening. I think Yahtzee Nay Nay is correct in suggesting KK discuss this privately with people offering support, then requesting this topic be closed to new posts. The Laughing Place community can be wonderful at offering support. But anytime you bring something to the boards you open it up to discussion and opinion.
Originally Posted By Yahtzee Nay Nay "People on these boards have been posting personal issues for a long time now." Yes, people have, I've watched it for years and years now and I know where it always leads which is to discussion of the posted issue and inevitably hurt feelings and one or two people threatening to leave LP forever. These boards are PUBLIC not private so anyone can give their opinion whether it is right, wrong, helpful or hurtful, period. That is the way it is, that is the way it has always been. I am wishing Katie all the best and wish that she gets some help, good news or just closure on this issue, but I don't think that she will resolve her problems here. I have many good friends that I have made through LP and for that I am eternally grateful. When I have a problem in my life, I do discuss it with my LP friends, but in private, not here. If she wants help planning her upcoming Disney vacation, this is the place for it, but for personal issues, this is not the best place or the most helpful. Katie, all I'm saying is it looks like you have some friends in this thread who are willing to give you some help and support, I think you will feel better in the long run if you make arrangements to contact them directly if they are willing and continue your discussion there. Most LPer's are not hard to find on Facebook or by other means. My post is meant to be helpful, not hurtful.
