Originally Posted By TDLFAN >>Why marry unless it's just to up the population?<< Isn't that why straight men get married in the first place?
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<I understand needing Mom to help out with the new baby, sure, but why doesn't Mom join the family and not vice-versa? And in many cases, the Dad stays home to work and DOES NOT SEE HIS BABY for several months after the birth!>> Don't you know about Mother-in-Laws?
Originally Posted By bobbelee9 Straight or gay doesn't matter, males just need someone to clean up after them and wait on them. What I was trying poorly to say was, why get married when all you have to do is get some chic pregnant, then move on and forget her? They arrangement mentioned above, doesn't sound like it has any love or committment involved.
Originally Posted By Bob Paris Please don't generalize re:the cleaning thing. I am gay and clean up after myself(it's of course easier than cleaning up after a whole messy inconsiderate family).
Originally Posted By bobbelee9 Sorry, I know lumping everyone together is wrong. But most of the males I know do not bother to clean up. As a wife and mother, I know a lot of that is my fault.
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<But most of the males I know do not bother to clean up. As a wife and mother, I know a lot of that is my fault.>> I'm totally anal about cleaning. My wife also claims I have wonderful taste when it comes to decorating. I sure hope I'm not catching the gayness! ;-)
Originally Posted By Bob Paris Funny thing is, I was just talking to my best friend tonight who owns a cleaning business. He has been living with his new partner and her two daughters for almost ten months now and he bitched and moaned the whole time about what disgusting filthy pigs they are. His partner gets home from her gardening job and there is black sand on their carpet while the two teenage daughters are just complete grots(he has had to repaint the corner of walls several times where they walk around a hall while holding onto the wall with their grubby mits.......I'd give the little bitches one warning and then.....). I was thinking of the above comment all the way through his tirade.
Originally Posted By MPierce >> Sorry, I know lumping everyone together is wrong. But most of the males I know do not bother to clean up. As a wife and mother, I know a lot of that is my fault. << That's a wifed job isn't it? Just kidding. >> Please don't generalize re:the cleaning thing. I am gay and clean up after myself(it's of course easier than cleaning up after a whole messy inconsiderate family). << I know they've got to be out there, but I have yet to meet a messy single gay male.
Originally Posted By bobbelee9 <<<That's a wifed job isn't it?>>> Ha-Ha!! Not if she's working a 40 hour week. It's called sharing.
Originally Posted By TDLFAN >>But most of the males I know do not bother to clean up.<< That's what you get for hanging out with straight guys.
Originally Posted By Spirit of 74 <<I know they've got to be out there, but I have yet to meet a messy single gay male.>> I know some ... they do exist. Speaking of gay, I met Doogie Howser himself last night. He sure plays straight well.
Originally Posted By Spirit of 74 ^^No gay bar (or straight or bi curious or transgender or just so desperate they don't care bar either) ... I was at the TV Academy's Emmy Nominee Dinner and Reception. This might shock you, TDLFAN, but he was not the only gay man in the house. Or even on the nominee stage!
Originally Posted By Spirit of 74 ^^Truer words ... But I also met T.R. Knight ... I think he'd be more type (if I opted to play for my own team!) ... just a nice, shy, thoughtful and good-looking dude ... also, one who definitely doesn't crave the spotlight ... Neil Patrick Harris seems in love with himself.