Originally Posted By Shiva You know, the sad part is that Ruthie was not exaggerating nor embellishing. Virginia is quite a pistol. I remember the time when we were at Dumbo particularly well. When the CM did not notice our party at the gate right away, she yells, "HELLO!!! CRIPPLE HERE!!". The saddest part is that I know just how much Ruthie and Rod gave up to take Virginia with them. All four of us are commando theme park enthusiasts and definitely know how to get in some serious rideage. Obviously this whole trip was planned around Virgina and the subsequent limitations. She's a nice lady but her actions didn't show a lot of respect for what the Sallys were doing for her. Santa was still right, Ruthie is the naughty one and we all know it! piratebrittany, thanks for the support on the JC, four chickens sounds good to me too.
Originally Posted By davewasbaloo OMG - I hope when we all hook up it does not become a hiccup. Warning Shiva, the Baloos take Disney in our stride. I think I would have an honest and open conversation at home. It does sound like a nightmare situation. However, at her age, please do not be surprised if she does not change her ways. I hope the trip wasn't a complete bust for you guys.
Originally Posted By Shiva >>Warning Shiva, the Baloos take Disney in our stride.<< No problem Dave, it's just a matter of priorities and spending some time with you you and your family is at the top of our list. We also know you will want some private time with just your family so we'll have time for plenty of rideage.
Originally Posted By iamsally The first 2.5 days were fine. Yes, 'Ginia is a lot of work at best; but we took her knowing that. We were happy to sacrifice to see her so happy. But drunk or sober, she does not seem to understand that it is nobody's duty to take care of her. As I have stated before; she acts like she is just another friend joining us. I do not regret taking her. I spent quite a bit of time yesterday making a tape for her of all the photos and movies we took. I do however dread telling her we cannot take her again.
Originally Posted By Tinks- Place Wait for a quiet moment Dear Friend then ask God to phrase your words for you, he will, you have been such a wonderful person , God will make sure you are always remembered as one in her heart, don't rush into saying anything, a lot can happen between now and then, by making a tape and including pictures , you shown your true heart, keep it beating to that tune, be happy for the good times , forgive the bad, for the good out weighs all, rejoice in the happy times, we all may find ourselves wearing the same shoes, wondering how they ever came upon our feet, your good heart will see you thru...tell her not what you your self would dread to hear, things may change...our prayers are with you that they shall, take care...hugs from the Tink-Mobile oxoxox
Originally Posted By liveforvacations I commend you for your attitude iamsally and you are oh so right. One of the things that I have always believed is that you should never regret doing something nice for someone even if it does not work out. However, you do have to also know when to say enough is enough and this is clearly the time for you. I know you will do it as nicely as possible and if she does not accept it well, there is nothing more that you can do. Just do not feel bad because you were as patient and giving as any person should be. Good luck and be strong!
Originally Posted By iamsally Thank both you for the kind words. I have spent a lot of time in prayer and meditation asking for the right words and time to say them. Obviously waiting until after Christmas. Maybe until she mentions it again. I know I will not go plunging in headlong without a plan.
