Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter STOP!!! Darling, dearest publicist, please come back! We won't force you to reveal sordid details. (At least until after you've had several more apple martinis).
Originally Posted By DisneyChica Let's see where to start. . . I guess I will start with my sisters. My middle sister, Melissa and my youngest sister, Sara. For as long as I can remember, Melissa and I have not gotten along very well. Over the past few years I have observed our relationship and how we interact with each other. I seriously think she miht be bipolar or something. You walk on eggshells around her until you know if she happy/mad. We spend most of our time snapping at each other, and then not talking for a few weeks. She made me so mad once that I went a year without interacting with her. It has gotten to the point where i purposefully do something to make her snap, just so I don't have to deal with her. She quit talking to Nessa a few years ago, and family friends that come over alwys ask if Melissa is in a good mood before they approach her. My other sister, Sara, realy got me P'Od when I took her to school last week. She, as well, was not talking to me so I was trying to find out what I did to make her mad. We got to talking and I told her that I thought she was seriously mad at me over the weekend. Well she looked out the window and wouldn't even acknowledge me. So I kept trying to get her attention. She finally looked at me and said "I'M SORRY, I'M HARD-OF-HEARING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE SAYING UNLESS I'M LOOKING AT YOU" I told her I was sick of her pulling that crap with me and turned up the radio. Needless to say, we haven't spoken since.
Originally Posted By DisneyChica Part of me wonder if all of this is really my fault and what I can do to solve it. The other part of doesn't care and likes not having to worry about wether Melissa is happy/mad. I just know that she's mad (at least with me) and I don't have to deal with her.
Originally Posted By DisneyChica She is, she wears 2 hearing aids. We've always helped each other out because I have vision problems (you remember Fantasmic! right PixieG?) We've always joked that she my eyes and I'm her ears.
Originally Posted By chickendumpling <<Carry on, ladies. (And SuzieQ. . . . !!!!)>> OOOO! What'd I miss? What'd I miss? Why isn't SuzieQ a lady anymore???
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter Chica, just from your brief description, it sounds like you are not the only one Melissa has issues with. That would kinda point to the fact that she's the one with problems.
Originally Posted By Pixie Glitter Chica, I'm not clear then. Is there a possiblity that Sara truly didn't hear you? CD, I wasn't saying SuzieQ isn't a lady, I was making exclamation points at her revealing that she'd danced on a bar.
Originally Posted By bubsmom <<<< Listening intently to DisneyChica's story.... (thanks P*G...I want to play too.. Just hanging out right now...but trust me..I'm sure I have *several* tidbits to share..All PG rated...of course! ; )
Originally Posted By trailsend I think it is so cool to be able to vent things are not going right. DisneyChica needs something really nice because she is so honest. Seriously, I admire that. Funny thing about me and margaritas or ANY drink ~ I don't drink. Being hypoglycemic, it is not fun. I can get giddy, really, without. But, because I'm in the Mellow Room, and we're getting into Sordid Details/Secrets, I will have 3 or 4 more of WHATEVER that is *Pixie*Glitter* game me.
Originally Posted By bubsmom <<<I danced on the bar once, and I was probably around 30 at the time! Coyote Ugly would have fired me instantly.>> LMAO!!! Oh SusieQ..You crack me up!!!
Originally Posted By DisneyChica No, she heard me all right. She had gotten mad at me and turned away like, "I'm done listening to you," and I had been tapping her to get her attention because I know she has to look at me to understand what I'm saying
Originally Posted By chickendumpling Disneychica - I'm so sorry to hear about all this. I think PixieGlitter is absolutely right though. And families can be so hard to deal with sometimes. (Sorry about my earlier post - I didn't scroll down before I posted and I didn't even see your post about your troubles with sis until after I posted that smart alecky comment @ Suzie Q. Didn't mean to be insensitive or ignore your post, I just didn't see it. Sorry.)
Originally Posted By DisneyChica No need to apologize ChickyD (which by the way, is the nickname I've always used for Sara). This is a happenin' thread tonight.
Originally Posted By melekalikimaka When I worked at Dairy Queen I accidentally spilled a giantic cup of coke on a guy who was wearing his white military outfit. Can I have my liquor now? Remembering that made me really need a margarita.
Originally Posted By DisneyChica Ok honest and truly, I've really apprecited everyone listening to me so far, but my cabana boy is due on TV in 3 minutes. I will return here after the show is over to continue my story and listen to any advice. See you all in thirty minutes!
Originally Posted By trailsend It is so hard to have to walk carefully around someone never knowing what will tick them off.
Originally Posted By trailsend >>>>When I worked at Dairy Queen I accidentally spilled a giantic cup of coke on a guy who was wearing his white military outfit.<<<< Now, Mele, you did that on purpose. I mean, I would have, too. Well, did he look good?? Or did you trip or something?
