Originally Posted By Lady Starlight AND MlD, this is THE BEST time to be losing weight! It's time to focus on YOU and being the HOTTEST HEALTHIEST YOU that YOU can BE!
Originally Posted By mele Ugh, I wish we could form a posse and kick his butt for you, MLD. I hate to say this but sometimes you have to find solace where you can find it. Dieting and exercising through all of this pain could be a great thing to focus on, to keep your mind off of things but please, please, please do not beat yourself up if you don't have the energy or willpower right now. You are only human and sometimes you have to do whatever you can to get through, you know? We'll be here no matter what you do, but please don't beat yourself up! Take care of you!
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight Oh, duh, Lady.Starlight@yahoo.com Just add the DOT in the middle of Lady and startlight.
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight <<Ugh, I wish we could form a posse and kick his butt for you, MLD.>> Ya know what's going to kick his butt , Is the next time he sees her lookin even hotter than she is now! Then she can turn around ,flip her tail in the air and toss sand on him to cover him up! Good riddance to bad rubbish!
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight Mele, it's ok,you speak the truth. We are only human and do what we can to get ourselves through these emotional times. Either way it's ok. It's understandable. But what a sweet revenge to have for ones self, by being the healthiest you can be and looking the best you can look. I'm tellin ya, Loosing my ex was the best 230 pounds I EVER Lost!
Originally Posted By Tandelothien >>So not only did my fiancé break it off with me last night (although we are still living together at the moment) he went onto a dating site to actively look for someone new this morning! I am so stunned that I feel like Alice down the rabbit hole.<< I thought he told you he found someone else? Sounds like this a*hole is playing games with you and is this why he's sabotaging your diet atempts, and if he's still living there demand the lazy bum give you the rent money he owes you! It's time to get tough with this deadbeat, for yourself and your DD, so I'm sending you lots of courage vibes because I know you can do this. Turn the mind games back on him by walking around the house humming or singing to yourself and acting like you're happy. Then make yourself notice all the things about him that annoy you and it will be easier to let him go. {{{MomluvsDisney}}}
Originally Posted By mele <<But what a sweet revenge to have for ones self, by being the healthiest you can be and looking the best you can look.>> Very true. But I still think it'd be fun to run him down with my car. ;-)
Originally Posted By MomluvsDisney Mele wrote "Very true. But I still think it'd be fun to run him down with my car. ;-)" Thanks for the quickie laugh..it was needed. Tandelothien-Thank you for the advice. Yes it all changes daily..and I think everyone here has given me a lot to think through. Thank you for the vibes to help! And thank you Lady Starlight, that has helped me more then I can say!
Originally Posted By AuroraRose MLD-I'm late to the party today, but get him out asap! if you can live without it and you're paying for it, have the internet shut off!
Originally Posted By csgoofygirl Mld- Sending hugs and happy thoughts your way. Survived a horrific medical procedure yesterday that gave me no answers. But today is a new day! I've eaten healthy foods, I made myself get dressed including make up and hair, I'm doing things that I know are good for me. It's time to take care of me. DD called this morning very upset. She is heavier than she has ever been and very discouraged. We are going to go to a WW meeting in the morning. She has kind of tried to follow the plan through me, but I think she needs to go and see for herself what it's all about. So I need to be her cheerleader for a while. So another day, more choices to be made, some good, some not so good, but I am determined to keep moving forward.
Originally Posted By Tandelothien Good for you csgoofygirl! I almost piked out of exercising this morning but I made myself do it and I feel better for not giving in
Originally Posted By Lady Starlight Yes! Due to popular demand,I'm bring it back to you! I found these this site quite a few years ago and posted them once. I think it's time to bring you all a fun flashback! Just click on the FAR right hand set of the arrows, they will take you to each picture and description. Enjoy! LOL! <a href="http://www.candyboots.com/wwcards/czarina.html" target="_blank">http://www.candyboots.com/wwca...ina.html</a>
Originally Posted By MomluvsDisney csgoofygirl- good for you! Sending postive thoughts to you~~ Tandelothien--I am proud of you!
Originally Posted By Tandelothien Lol, thanks Lady Starlight for the dinner inspiration. It's Saturday here so I thought I might go a bit all-out and make Frankfurter Spectacular for dinner, nom nom, nom. I know, you all want to hop on a plane for Australia now and partake in our wacky weekend frivolities, don't you?!!! And thank you MomluvsDisney, now if I could motivate myself to clean the pool *sigh*
Originally Posted By Tinkeroon Went to that website Lady S. What were we thinking back then? Holy Mackerel! Oh no, not MORE mackerel! MomluvsDisney...this is for you ((((((((MomluvsDisney)))))))) and there's plenty more where that came from! csgoofygirl...I hope you're feeling much better today.
