Originally Posted By RockyMtnMinnie Not single, but we've never really celebrated VD. I've never understood throwing our money away to celebrate a concept that we should be expressing every day of the year. So, not single, but a V-Day hater. Just another excuse for stores to fill their shelves.
Originally Posted By FerretAfros Count me in as a single Valentine's Day hater. Even when I've been with someone, it just seemed so forced. I definately think that people should celebrate special days in their relationships, but ones that are special to them for a unique reason, not because someone else said that day was special. To celebrate it (and the long weekend) I'm going camping with a bunch of my roommates and friends (many of whom are ditching their girlfriends-not very happy about it-for it, and a girl who's ditching her boyfriend-who's thrilled about it) for the weekend. And just a nice little sign of how feel about the day...we'll be spending it in Death Valley. Take that, sappy Hallmark cards! : )
Originally Posted By MissCandice Yeah, to me it's a Hallmark holiday. I am happily single, so I don't begrudge anyone their schmoopy luv time but like others have said: it should be celebrated year round, not just on 2-14.
Originally Posted By LadyKluck I hate it too. My husband is furthest from romantic as you can possibly get and I gave up on him years ago on thinking I'd ever get flowers or jewelry or anything. Before DH, my mom and I would have fun with it, but DH has ruined it for me. Thanks honey! >
Originally Posted By poohbear14 Single here. I'm a romantic at heart. I agree with RMM. I love to be pampered but not on Valentine's Day when it's too commercial. Still looking for my soul mate. Guess I'll be at home tomorrow doing my housework and eating a pint of ice cream.
Originally Posted By Autopia Deb Be strong Poohbear! It's just another day for us, just as good as anyother.
Originally Posted By LadyKluck Oh you don't understand Autopia Deb, this is the same man that when we started to talk about getting married, we went into a jewelry store at the mall one day and he said "I suppose you probably want one of those" (referring to the rings). I said I thought it would be nice to have one, so we walked in, he had me pick one out, he bought it and handed it to me in the store. No proposal or anything.
Originally Posted By SoThisIsLove {{{{{officerminnie}}}}}} If you're a romantic sap like me, every day is Valentine's Day. (generally speaking Thing is....we don't get commercial about ANY holiday in our family. It's never about the money or fancy gifts. I so much prefer gifts from the heart (time, most especially). So...tomorrow will be at home-cooked steak dinner and some movies at home with our ailing DD16. Funny. I got her and DH presents (modest, yet thoughtful) from disneyshopping.com for V-Day. I dunno. Life's so short....every day can be V-Day. Don't need a significant other, even. Just give a smile to someone. *sigh* Gee, I'm getting old.....I've got to stop the mushiness. Sorry to mess with your groove here, guys. Carry on. xoxo (STiL love y'all anyway. Can't stop me! " )
Originally Posted By Autopia Deb Yep, I'm thinkin' you need to just go ahead and declare yourself a goody goody and get it over with. ;-P
Originally Posted By WorldDisney LOL, thanks for including me Deb . Yeah, I this is the 4th straight year I had to live through this holiday alone. I was HOPING to have someone this year, but didnt quite work out. But this holiday seems to make single people feel worse about themselves then better. Is already V day here in Australia and I'm actually watching a show here about single people trying to meet others. Pretty damn depressing lol. Oh well, 6 more hours to go and in about 4 hours I plan to be veeeery drunk lol.
Originally Posted By dshyates I want to be dating someone, but Hillbilly hell isn't the place to meet a nice cultured gay man. Go figure. Even the gay men here look like Larry the Cable Guy. Git-R-Done!!!.
Originally Posted By WorldDisney Oh and not to begrudge anyone whose into it either, dont get me wrong!! Yeah, V day has always been waaaay too commerical (and I use to live in Korea where, believe it or not, they had a romantic theme for EVERY freaking 14th of the month all year, sigh.) and its just so in-you-face you cant avoid it. At least being single on this day means you save some cash in these troubled times .
Originally Posted By WorldDisney Where do you live dshyates? Its funny, I'm not gay, but I lived in some of the gay friendliest cities in the world (not counting Korea lol). Currently living in Sydney Australia, one of the most open in the world. If you lived here, your odds would be better, but who am I kidding, I cant even find any straight girls here lol.
Originally Posted By dshyates West Virginia. The place where they slit your tires and smash you windshield if you have an Obama sticker.
Originally Posted By dshyates Outhouse Capitol of America <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wK0SWvu07Y0" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...SWvu07Y0</a>
Originally Posted By WorldDisney LOL, oh okay, not the most open-minded area huh? Guessing you must go online to meet anyone.