Originally Posted By avromark First one is Fabio (who if I was a female would not think is the handsomess guy in the world)
Originally Posted By JohnS1 Interesting that growing up in the baby boomer generation, I always heard the saying: "Eat (insert your favorite health food here) - it will put hair on your chest." But now women seem to dislike hair on mens' chests. I was trained to think that men with no hair on their chests were effeminate; now they are apparently what's popular, as long as they have feelings - but not so many feelings that they can't fix a broken garage door opener or jump a burglar should one approach your home.
Originally Posted By TALL Disney Guy Lol Yeah, I hope that "fad" passes...we hairy men need to be appreciated since we go to all the trouble to grow it. (Too bad this ain't the '70s, dang lol)
Originally Posted By Goofyernmost Amen, hairy bro! I kind of resemble a carpet on a shed roof. Why do women folk try so hard to feminise us. I don't understand that. I (by I, I mean men folk) do not determine our physical makeup, we are born with it. I hear comments all the time like I grew hair on my back on purpose just to gross out women. I don't mean to offend anyone but in my feeble little mind if women want to be with someone that looks and acts like a woman I guess men are not a required part of the scenario. Just a thought!
Originally Posted By TALL Disney Guy carpet on a shed roof, LOL! I dunno about them womenfolk, Goofyernmost...if any of us guys ever figger 'em out, lemme know. In the meantime, I gots me some more body hair to sprout (a natural talent!)
Originally Posted By Goofyernmost Ahh...there's nothing quite as charming as sitting on a quiet still night listening to the crickets singing away and the magical sounds of hair sprouting on yet another new unreachable body location. Good times!!
Originally Posted By Kala This topic is a hilarious read, I'm cryin' cause I'm laughing so hard! Yes, women really don't know what they want. I work with a few. I always tell them, "Quit making the sisterhood look bad!" I agree with most of the survey, I don't mind facial hair as long as it's kept nice. Cologne? As long as it isn't over done. Chickendumpling, I'm with you, I'll take a sense of humor over looks anyday too! Goofyern, the shed remarks, Goood ones! LOL! I can't wait for the what men want.
Originally Posted By Kala <<Yes, women really don't know what they want.>> should be <<Yes, MOST women really don't know what they want.>> Sorry for the grouping sistahs.
Originally Posted By Goofyernmost The other thing about body hair is that, if I remember my high school biology lessons, the degree of body hair is connected to the levels of testosterone in the body. The more hair the more testosterone. Without it, frankly, there ain't no reason to even look in the shed. And as a male (older) I must ask the question; what is the deal with hair sprouting out of my ears? Is that some cruel joke. I cannot grow hair on the top of my head at all but from the ears down it looks like I am trying to become a chia pet. Gotta make ya wonder! I won't even venture a guess about skin tags. I think it's a signal that the games over, back to the bench.
Originally Posted By trailsend OK ~ TDG ~ I'm going to give my 2 cents now and *I* have way more experience than most. I must say, however, RT really hit the nail on the head, so to speak. (Now if he just practices what he knows to be true . . .he's a happy guy.) Is a Man Crying Sexy? Yes 23% *NO* 44% Not Sure 33% <----MY ANSWER ~ It totally depends on why a man is crying. If it is an appropriate situation or a moving moment (not during sex, guys) tears welling in a man's eyes show incredible depth in their emotions; a place women love to venture into. Fake Hair or No Hair? Fake Hair 2% *NO HAIR* 84% Not Sure 14% <----MY ANSWER ~ No hair. My goodness, it's not the hair that makes a man sexy. If a man has fake hair, he probably has fake teeth and fake emotions and fake . . .nevermind. Is Facial Hair Sexy? Yes 33$ *NO* 51% Not Sure 16% <----MY ANSWER ~ Beards and mustaches are not sexy unless it's Sean Connery. Stubble is, depending on who's stubble it is. And these grotesque little tiny bunches of hair growth some men like to have under their lower lip ~ YUCK YUCK YUCK !!!!! MORE YUCK !!! Metrosexual or Lumberjack? *LUMBERJACK* 44% Metrosexual 21% Not Sure 35% <----MY ANSWER ~ Given only these two, this is a hard one. (no pun) Yes, we all want a big, lumberjackin' guy, but hope he comes with thoughts, feelings, and some idea of what clothes to put together. Are Love Handles Sexy? *MUSCULAR BUILD* 55% Love Handles 22% Not Sure 24$ <----MY ANSWER ~ Once again, I will say. If a guy has a dynamite personality; if he is considerate of his Mom, grandmother; is polite, courteous; thoughtful; remembers special occasions and creates special occasions; honors his vows; is honest with unshakeable moral convictions; doesn't openly ooogle at other women; love handles don't matter. Muscular builds on men with their oiled hairless skin denotes brain dead. What a bore. Now, if you get a guy with all the qualities mentioned above and he just happens to work out ~ Is Having Money Sexy? *NOT AT ALL* 34% Somewhat 29% A lot 3% <----MY ANSWER ~ of course it is. Conservative, Casual, or Uncovered style? Business Suit 31% *JEANS & T-SHIRT* 54% Sweats & Tank Top 1% <----MY ANSWER ~ There is almost nothing that can compare with a guy in a classic tuxedo ~ I know that's not mentioned ~ but I've never seen any guy not look handsome in a tuxedo. (And I've seen a lot of guys) And a well-dressed man in a great suit ~ yummy. And a guy in a great-looking pair of jeans and say, a white shirt? ooooo Sweats and tank-top? Sweats are not bad, but the tank-top leaves a lot to be desired. A regular t-shirt looks better. A Man Fixing His Car or Fixing a Meal? Fixing His Car 24% FIXING A MEAL 52% Not Sure 24% <----MY ANSWER ~ Fixing a meal. A guy who is comfortable preparing a meal is incredibly sexy. It shows he's probably very aware in "other areas". Is Wearing Cologne Sexy? *YES* 55% No 28% Not Sure 17% <----MY ANSWER ~ NO. But this is a personal opinion. I much prefer a clean smell, not cologne.
Originally Posted By Black Pearl I apologize Chickendumpling. It all makes so much more sense now. I am sorry to you too Tall Disney Guy. I guess you two aren't gay. Of course, if you were gay well that is fine with me too. I was just asking out of ignorance.
Originally Posted By Black Pearl Concerning the original post I would like to say that women want something different every day.
Originally Posted By disneyfreaksk Why is being Sexy so important? Personally, I stay away from guys who are very good looking (except for Captain Jack Sparrow). Why? Because they are high maintenance! I prefer personality over looks.
Originally Posted By RoadTrip <<I must say, however, RT really hit the nail on the head, so to speak. (Now if he just practices what he knows to be true . . .he's a happy guy.)>> I'm a pretty happy guy!! The only real differences are: I don't do 3-day stubble. I don't like the look on myself... probably because I'm blond and it just doesn’t really look like anything. I let my wife ogle George Clooney and Hugh Laurie all she wants to get her stubble fix. I'm not as overweight as my wife is (I'm 10-15 lbs over), but I would never in a million years let her know I thought that. I also don't clean the house anymore. We now have a housekeeper come in twice a month and do it. When we did it ourselves my wife cleaned the bathroom and dusted while I did all of the vacuuming and mopping.
Originally Posted By trailsend >>>>Why is being Sexy so important? Personally, I stay away from guys who are very good looking (except for Captain Jack Sparrow). Why? Because they are high maintenance! I prefer personality over looks.<<<< I agree with you totally, disneyfreaksk. Sexy is NOT looks ~ sexy IS personality. Sexy is so many things other than looks. So many.
